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020 |a 9781626568976 
050 4 |a BF637.C45 
100 1 |a Jay, Jason J. 
245 0 0 |a Breaking through gridlock  |b the power of conversation in a polarized world  |c Jason Jay, Gabriel Grant 
250 |a First edition 
260 |a Oakland, CA  |b Berrett-Koehler Publishers  |c 2017 
300 |a 1 volume  |b illustrations 
505 0 |a Includes bibliographical references and index 
505 0 |a Clarify values -- Own the polarization -- Expand the landscape -- Dance in the new terrain -- Chapter 7 summary -- 8 Widen the Circle: Building inclusive movements -- Shared inquiry is required to change the collective conversation -- Each social movement has core tensions and pitfalls -- Realist-visionary tensions are present in all social movements -- Movements can have collective bait and pitfalls -- Find the possibility at the heart of our movements -- We have only just begun to discover the pathways forward -- Chapter 8 summary -- Notes -- Bibliography -- Acknowledgments -- Index -- A -- B -- C -- D -- E -- F -- G -- H -- I -- J -- K -- L -- M -- N -- O -- P -- R -- S -- T -- U -- V -- W -- Y -- About the Authors 
505 0 |a Cover -- Title -- Copyright -- Contents -- Exercises -- Figures -- Tables -- Foreword -- Preface: How this book came to be -- Our journey -- A note on our language -- Introduction: How to use this book -- Serious play -- A note on the exercises -- Introduction summary -- 1 How We Get Stuck: Breakdowns in conversation -- The power of conversation -- Start where you are -- Focus on real, live conversations -- Power plays can't help you strengthen relationships -- Framing breaks down in unfamiliar and polarized situations -- Start with authenticity -- What's possible -- Chapter 1 summary -- 2 (In)Authenticity: The key to getting unstuck -- Consistency with the past can lead to getting stuck -- Dynamic authenticity is aligned with the future -- Dynamic authenticity is a team sport -- Chapter 2 summary -- 3 Know What You Bring: The hidden baggage of conversations -- Our way of being is tied with our background conversation -- Our ways of being are shared -- Uncover your background conversations -- Ways of being can be tricky to see -- Is being in the eye of the beholder? -- Being and inauthenticity -- Chapter 3 summary -- 4 Locate the Bait: What we gain when conversations lose -- You got yourself stuck -- Pitfalls: Background conversations that get us stuck -- Identifying the bait helps you get unstuck -- Bait usually involves right, righteous, certain, and safe -- Map out your pitfall -- Chapter 4 summary -- 5 Dare to Share: Moving past the talking points -- Connect with internal motivations -- Express what you really want -- Embody your new way of being -- Chapter 5 summary -- 6 Start Talking: Bringing conversations back to life -- The power of apology -- You will encounter a variety of responses -- Results require action, and action requires commitment -- Chapter 6 summary -- 7 Embrace the Tension: How our differences can make a difference 
653 |a Conversation / http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh85031697 
653 |a Conflit interpersonnel 
653 |a Interpersonal communication / http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh85067481 
653 |a Conversation 
653 |a Interpersonal conflict / fast 
653 |a Interpersonal communication / fast 
653 |a Conversation / fast 
653 |a Interpersonal conflict / http://id.loc.gov/authorities/subjects/sh85067483 
653 |a Communication interpersonnelle 
700 1 |a Grant, Gabriel  |e author 
041 0 7 |a eng  |2 ISO 639-2 
989 |b OREILLY  |a O'Reilly 
490 0 |a A BK life book 
856 4 0 |u https://learning.oreilly.com/library/view/~/9781626568976/?ar  |x Verlag  |3 Volltext 
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